When somebody vanishes without explanation or warning, it's shocking and painful. But instead of caring for ourselves, we tend to focus tons of energy on the ghost. "Why did they do this? What did they think about me? Where are they?"
These are normal and understandable questions, but when we ruminate on what we can't control (the ghost), we can lose sight of caring for ourselves.
🛑👻Don't ghost yourself. You deserve to be seen, heard, and acknowledged, and now is the time to see, hear, and recognize your needs. In this podcast, Gretta shares seven ways to boost your mood, relieve stress, and generally feel better after being ghosted. You are #1.
Connect with Gretta:
Private Coaching with Gretta
Free Guide: What to Say To Your Ghost
Free Facebook Support Group | Instagram | copingwithghosting.com
Resources Mentioned:
Self Compassion Exercise
POPSUGAR Fitness
Yoga With Adrienne
Insight Timer (for sleep, anxiety and stress)
Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo Zaiah
Disclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals.
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Note to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages).
When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."